Why I Don't Use "O-words"
Why I Don't Use "O-words"

Why I Don't Use "O-words"

Let's talk about the BMI

It's still hanging around, widely accepted despite mountains of evidence pointing to its flaws. I'm here to shine a light on the history and the facts because, well, you deserve to know just how flawed it truly is. And maybe, just maybe, armed with this knowledge, you'll feel empowered to kick the BMI to the curb when it comes to measuring your health.

So, let's go back a bit. The BMI, or Body Mass Index, made its debut back in 1832 courtesy of Adolphe Quetelet, a mathematician and statistician. His original idea? It was more about general weights in different populations, not about sizing up individual health. Fast forward to the 1900s, and Ancel Keys decided to repurpose it for personal health assessments, even though it wasn't designed for that. Keys himself saw its flaws but figured it was better than nothing. And that's how we ended up with the BMI sticking around.

But here's the kicker: the BMI isn't valid. In research terms, validity means measuring what it's supposed to measure. And using the BMI to gauge individual health? Yeah, not its intended purpose. Plus, it was based on data from a pretty narrow slice of humanity: white, European men. Trying to determine the health of all bodies with a tool designed for a very specific group? Not exactly a recipe for accuracy.

And those categories it puts us in – underweight, normal weight, overweight, ob*se – they leave out a whole lot of important stuff. Like muscle mass, bone density, and a whole host of factors that influence our health, from economic stability to childhood experiences. And guess what? Many doctors and medical pros aren't taking these factors into account either when they're sizing up our health.

Here's the real kicker: your BMI might not be telling you the whole story. People labeled as "overweight" by the BMI actually live longer than those in the "normal weight" category. And those with a BMI over 30? They're holding their own, living just as long, if not longer, than those in the "normal" range. So, what's the takeaway? Well, maybe it's time to rethink how we measure health and stop letting the BMI dictate our worth.

O-Words Are Based in the Flawed BMI

Anti-diet therapists like myself often avoid using terms like "ob*sity" or "overweight" because these terms are often stigmatizing and can contribute to negative perceptions of body weight. Instead, they may prefer to use more neutral or descriptive language that focuses on health and well-being rather than on weight itself.

For example, they may use terms like "higher weight" or "larger-bodied" to describe individuals without assigning judgment or value to their size. This approach aligns with the principles of Health at Every Size (HAES) and body positivity, which emphasize self-acceptance, body diversity, and promoting health behaviors without focusing on weight loss as the primary goal.

Using non-stigmatizing language helps create a more supportive and inclusive environment for clients, reducing the shame and guilt often associated with discussions about weight. It allows therapists to focus on addressing underlying health issues and promoting holistic well-being, rather than solely on achieving a certain body size or weight.

This is why anti-diet therapists steer clear of terms like "ob*sity" or "overweight." These words pack a punch, don't they? They're loaded with stigma, feeding into those negative beliefs about body weight that we've been carrying around for far too long. In fact, these words are considered by many to be a slur. Instead, we're all about language that lifts us up, that sees us for who we truly are beyond the numbers on a scale.

So, what do we say instead?

How about "higher weight" or "larger-bodied"? These words aren't not about judgment or worth – they're about describing our bodies in a way that feels empowering. It's all about the journey toward health and well-being, not about fitting into some narrow idea of what our bodies "should" look like.

Fat liberation activists reclaim the word "fat" by challenging its negative connotations and reclaiming it as a neutral descriptor of body size. They reject the notion that fatness is inherently bad or unhealthy and instead celebrate fat bodies as valid and worthy of respect.

This approach comes out of the Health at Every Size (HAES) guidelines. It's about embracing ourselves exactly as we are, celebrating the beautiful tapestry of body diversity that makes us who we are. And you know what? It's a game-changer.

When we ditch the stigmatizing language, we create space for real healing. We let go of the shame and guilt that have been weighing us down, and we focus on what truly matters – our health, our happiness, our wholeness. It's about addressing the root causes of any health issues we might be facing and supporting ourselves on every level – body, mind, and spirit.

So let's keep the conversation going, my friends. Let's lift each other up, celebrate our bodies in all their glorious diversity, and rewrite the script when it comes to what it means to be truly healthy and whole. We've got this.